by Liz McKinnon
I find it highly amusing that the editors of this magazine have enlisted a woman to offer her views on penis enlargement. Should I be flattered or insulted? I guess they are keenly aware (and rightly so) that women have an opinion about EVERYTHING! Why should size of the male anatomy be any different?
Actually, the notion of penile enhancement is not so different from an idea embraced by a large percentage of womankind. I'm frequently amazed at the females I meet who are totally obsessed with breast enlargement. Women whom I respect. Women who should know better. Women who already HAVE big breasts, for God's sake! Is this the age that we live in.... a society whose motto screams out "If it's bigger, it's better!"?
I can't really comment objectively on the male desire to possess a huge penis. I once dated a man who dreamed of owning a "12 inch cock" (as HE put it!). Come on, let's be real. Twelve inches? What woman could handle anything that large? I understand there are women who prefer a big penis. But what good is owning an oversized Cadillac when your garage can only accomodate a Volvo?
Personally, I like the feeling of "fullness" when a man is inside me. And I'm more of width-gal than a length-gal... that is, I prefer I man who is wider than longer. However, I would never dismiss a man from bed strictly because of his penis size. It's cliche to say but... "It's not the size of the tool, it's how you use it". There's a lot of truth to that. I've been with small men before. Really small! And still I was able to achieve an orgasm.
I assume that most men crave a "big dick" so that they can pleasure their partners to the max. For a woman, there's something very complimentary about that. Contrary to the rumor that men are pigs, my experience tells me that guys really DO want to please their women in bed. They usually go to the appropriate extremes to send their lovers into fits of ecstacy.
If possessing a bigger penis gives a man more self-confidence, then I'm all for it. Better still, if it makes a man a better lover, I'm definitely for it! It's all psychological anyway. Even if a man gains an additional half-inch, it makes him feel a little more virile. A little more complete.
It's no different from a woman dropping two pounds while dieting. That tiny bit of weightloss makes her feel more attractive to the opposite sex... and to herself. There's nothing wrong with feeling good about yourself. Nobody can argue that.
And so, men... my advice (for what it's worth) is this: If penis enlargement improves your outlook on life, love and sex, then it's a notion definitely worth exploring. Yes, women will appreciate your efforts. But don't do it for a woman.
Do it for yourself.
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